First of all thanks a ton on such encouraging words on the first blog...its given me a real push to pen down Chapter 2....
Someone rightly said that a friend is someone who knows all about u but still is your friend....i strongly believe that your friends are the most accurate yardstick on which u can measure yourself...U will realize that your closest friends are those whom you can sense by a mere Hello of theirs....There's a strong reason I am writing about friends...coz too often i have found myself guilty of not valuing them n taking them too much for granted.....but still i consider myself fortunate enough that they have been so forgiving to me that despite my endless acts of impulsive eccentricities i have always found them forgiving me....
I still however fail to understand why are their people who to no end have the patience to bear my craziness which on most occasions i have been thankless about..!!!to be honest sometimes i feel that they're just a bunch of real generous people who try to kind to everyone...
U know its very important to have all genres of friends in life...coz for any average person its difficult to find someone who can be complementary to him in each and every aspect of his....
Quite often it happens that if a person is in a grp of very similar people,he'll tend to shed traits of his n adopt traits of those around him just to fit into a particular group....especially when we have to settle into a new environment, we generally try to atune ourselves to the likings n dislikings of the social environment around us rather than give people a taste of who we usually are....we often try to make people portray us the way they would be most comfortable in us being as a an individual rather than them getting to see the individual we really are....
C'mon be honest with urself....its something almost all of us are guilty of....Thats what makes a person as "just another person" rather than being the person we are and there's one thing for a fact that every person in this world is special for the way he truly is....This thought really hit me when I realized to realize that in office the main reason i havent been comfortable even after 2 months of my joining is probably because i have changed myself so much n tried so hard to fit into the system as an identity that is tailor-made for it that it had started to suffocate my original self under the weight of this "made for the system" i was trying to make myself to be....
It irritated me so so so much when i saw this foreign-return US mentality picked up joker who all he did all day was do the classic IMAGE BUILDING in the I AM JUST WHAT U'RE LOOKING FOR TO GEL ALONG IN YOUR GROUP sense n coud'nt give a damn about what was professionally or personally ethical or not.....but then is this act of faking ur true self in front of others ethical to yourself..????
U know i've heard a phrase being commonly used called identity crisis these days...Its supposed to mean a crisis of being recognized in front of others....Yes with the cut-throat competition people will suffer from identity crisis..But i feel identity crisis is a positive impact in this sense as atleast you have the urge in your mind that you need to do something so that people recognize you n that you get noticed...Often people suffering from this are considered losers who are craving to be noticed....All i can say is that losers are those who suffer not from identity crisis but the lack of an identity in them......
Well to be honest i am still wondering why i got sentimental over this issue but i have realized that as time goes by we let too much of the system we exist in get the better of us....by no stretch of imagination to i feel that we should all the professional rebels....all we have to try to do is to co-exist with the system rather than either trying to become a system or becomming a prototype of one....coz the only way to complete the verse of the Universe is to have "U n I" in unison else the verse shall remain incomplete...!!!
Well what ever i rambled above made absolutely no sense to me....if it did to u then plzz don't shy away from posting ur comments...
Cheers...!!!!
3 comments:
hmmm...nice.the first part of ur blog deals wid frnds n frndship...I wish u write more on it in future....
the 2nd part is true...but not applicable to all personalities...true most of the times though...
dude, one thing i'd say now is that the world which u r in now wont give u any more friends...
the US return joker u r talking abt,
i too know a guy(the pater party) with the same "quality" and this "quality" rendered him not a loser but a hit...
now this may seem unfair but unfortunately this is how this new world rotates...
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